Dear you-
Where to begin? Obviously since I haven't used your name, I am not ready to reveal your true identity. I think you're pretty great. Unavailable due to your commitment to your current pursuits, but great nonetheless. While your current pursuits make you unavailable, the level of commitment and drive that you have towards these pursuits show to me that when your ready to commit to a relationship, that's going to be one lucky lady.
Most people notice you because you are strikingly handsome, and I'm not going to argue with that but it's not my favorite thing about you. My favorite thing about you is your honesty and intelligence. You're not afraid to tell someone how it is, in the nicest way possible. The fact that you love to read and learn is so attractive and increasingly scarce in the world we live in. You are remarkably kind and supportive to those around you and in an increasingly competitive work environment that support for those who are your competition is rare. You're a family man and respect is important to you. Two qualities that make you even more attractive.
That's all, for now.
~Haley
Monday, December 3, 2012
Day 2: Your Crush
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Sunday, December 2, 2012
Day 1: Your Best Friend
This one is hard for me because I am the type of person who has a few really good friends, so I am going to write multiple letters for this one.
Dear WP-
{Frequent readers of my blog will already know about this group. If you aren't a frequent reader see here, here, and here} I am constantly amazed at how great friendships can evolve even when you don't see the other people. You ladies are such a source of strength for me. We are all driven and ambitious women yet that has never gotten in the way of our friendship. We're able to have fun in any situation and we always have each others back. I love that we have Facebook group messages and attempt for months to arrange get togethers (that really needs to happen soon people). I am grateful for you all and the roles that you play in my life. Thank you for always being around when I need you and for knowing exactly what to say. I love you guys!
Love, Hales
Dear Fab Five-
{Again I post about these ladies a lot, here's the most comprehensive post}
You ladies are probably my longest friendships, we're going on 10+ years and we still hang out! I am so happy that we've kept in touch through going away for college/jobs and somehow always coming back together. I am grateful that I will get to be a part of your children's lives and I cannot wait to be Aunt Haley, three times in the next 6 months! Those babies are going to be the luckiest kids ever to have you as moms. We're also getting a new husband in our group in the form of Dylan, an excellent addition to the Fab Five Husband Gang. I'm excited for us to get to skate together again, lets get working on that asap once those babies are born, and Meg-move back please! I would have to say that our group messages are some of the funniest moments of my life, and they definitely got me through some of the sad days of being alone in Upstate New York. We've been through a lot together and I am sure there are many many more years to come, I can't wait for the pictures of us as old ladies. I love you ladies and I am the luckiest girl to have you in my life.
LOVE YOU!
SBP-
You are my oldest friend and I am so glad that we have maintained our friendship through all these years. From playing in your parents or my grandparents house to attending your wedding almost 2 years ago, we've come a long way! I hope that we are able to get together more as we become more "grown ups" even though we are a country apart. I also hope I get to know Jonathan. You are so talented {aside for blog readers, check her out here} and I can't wait to have more significant life events so that you can design my invites and announcements! I'm grateful that we have the internet to further connect us across the miles and for all the memories we have from our adorable childhood. See you soon friend!
-HES
Chult-
Despite the fact that in high school you told me I was trying to hard to be your friend, in a note, I'm including you in this post. We've quickly become BFF since I randomly FB messaged you asking WTF was happening with your job at USSA. We've come a long way since HS, maybe not geographically since we work about 10 minutes from our HS, but I think that we are smarter and def funnier. Love our daily CBs and mailroom runs, frequent trips to aWokAway and my first trip to Copper. I am grateful for someone at work who I can ask dumb questions to and even though you will probably make fun of me, I still get an answer. I also look forward to the education on cinema I will receive through this friendship, I think we have like 10 straight days of movies that I have to watch. Also today is your bday! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
-Haley
I could write so many more, but there are more days to come where people fit! So I will limit this now so I don't duplicate letters, plus I've gotta keep you coming back.
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30 Days of Letters
Lately, nearly every idea that I tell someone about starts with "I saw this on Pinterest", this post is no different.
This idea was for 30 days of 30 letters to different people and in the spirit of the end of the year and starting fresh for 2013, I thought this would be a good series to do in December. Sometimes it just feels good to get things off your chest, not in a mean way, just something maybe you've been holding on to that is unconsciously holding you back. Blogging/writing letters feels like a good way to be honest and just put your feelings out in the world that feels anonymous, even though we all know that's not true...
Here's the list if you're interested in trying yourself!
- Day 1 — Your Best Friend
- Day 2 — Your Crush
- Day 3 — Your parents
- Day 4 —Your sibling (or closest relative)
- Day 5 — Your dreams
- Day 6 — A stranger
- Day 7 — Your Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend/love/crush
- Day 8 — Your favorite internet friend
- Day 9 — Someone you wish you could meet
- Day 10 — Someone you don’t talk to as much as you’d like to
- Day 11 — A Deceased person you wish you could talk to
- Day 12 — The person you hate most/caused you a lot of pain
- Day 13 — Someone you wish could forgive you
- Day 14 — Someone you’ve drifted away from
- Day 15 — The person you miss the most
- Day 16 — Someone that’s not in your state/country
- Day 17 — Someone from your childhood
- Day 18 — The person that you wish you could be
- Day 19 — Someone that pesters your mind—good or bad
- Day 20 — The one that broke your heart the hardest
- Day 21 — Someone you judged by their first impression
- Day 22 — Someone you want to give a second chance to
- Day 23 — The last person you kissed
- Day 24 — The person that gave you your favorite memory
- Day 25 — The person you know that is going through the worst of times
- Day 26 — The last person you made a pinky promise to
- Day 27 — The friendliest person you knew for only one day
- Day 28 — Someone that changed your life
- Day 29 — The person that you want tell everything to, but too afraid to
- Day 30 — Your reflection in the mirror
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Saturday, October 20, 2012
Crafty Time
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Thursday, October 18, 2012
I've Moved! (2 months late)
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Sunday, October 14, 2012
PINK Series Half Marathon
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Wednesday, October 10, 2012
I'll do this when...
I had a bit of an epiphany this week in yoga {that sounds so cliche, but it happened}. As I was meditating in savasana I was thinking about big events in my life that have yet to happen and then I thought about my role in the non-action in these areas. If you read this blog often you'll know that I am extremely Type A and I am always thinking about what to do next and what steps I need to take to get there. Then I thought about one of my favorite exchanges from The Wedding Date:
Kat: So you say here "every woman has the exact love life that she wants." That's a pretty broad generalization don't you think? Do you honestly believe I want to be single and miserable? Do you think I want to be hung up on a guy that lead me on for years and out of the blue shattered my heart?
Nick: First of all, there's not such thing as out of the blue. And second, yeah, when you're ready to let go, to be un-single and un-miserable, you will, till then...
While I don't have a guy that broke my heart out of the blue, I do have a few things I think are holding me back from being completely available. I have this picture in my head of what I will look like when I do certain life events, like I'll look like this when I meet the man of my dreams, I'll do so and so when I have achieved this in my career. When I was thinking about that I thought, what in my life am I missing out on because I am waiting for the perfect time instead of letting life happen. Don't get me wrong I think it is VERY important to set reasonably achievable goals and to work hard, otherwise I wouldn't be where I am now. But this Type A-overacheiver is going to take some time with what is left in 2012 (and on the advice of a very important/always right person in my life) to say yes to things I would normally say no too!
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